Dear Brothers, Dear Sisters Listen Up

Here is a very critical rule when you first meet a woman…be confident in ALL your well-being.  The reason why confidence is such a key factor verbally and non-verbally is because it displays self-assurance from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities.  In the modern era, Thirsty Jokers approach women from the physical aspect instead of the mental aspect.  Women are very observable and will be impress with how you carry yourself including your body language and conversation.  However, Thirsty Jokers comes in many forms whether it is the one you see when the club is over then without h esitation  proceeds to grabs a woman’s arm without properly introducing himself and labels her “Shorty”, or instant messaging a woman on social media constantly with sexual dialogue.  If this is YOU then please stop and Man-up! Real good quality women don’t need to do much to attract men.  All they have to do is look good and dress nice.  While some wo...

Music serves as a great stress reducer, uplifting and can be used as an educational source.  Real Music is the careful arrangement of organized sounds in the form of notes that then result in a smooth blend of rhythm, tone, and pitch that when united, is quite pleasing to the ear.  With everything in life there are two sides to a spectrum and in this case music can be a positive force or a negative influence.  Good music can also be translated into positive way of life while negative music can encrypt codes to behave in a reckless manner.  Here are a few examples. Music Soothes your Soul For example, playing live music to hospital patients can help lower their blood pressure and reduce depression and anxiety, research suggests.  The results of the study being carried out at the Chelsea and Westminster Hospital in London will be used to press the case for music and visual arts to be included in the budget for all new hospitals which is a great idea....

This year is very important to VOTE .  Instead of paying attention to your latest ratchet shows on TV or enjoying your vacations certain issues will be decided and it’s critical for you to be involve.  With all these recent shootings some sort of comprehensive measure should be done about gun control.  According to a recent study from USA Today examined by FBI data, “ 77% of mass killings involve a gun.  But killers also have used everything from their hands to saws to baseball bats.  Nearly one-third of victims were under age 18 .”  This staggering number represents that a change is needed in our current system.  Of course the NRA will deflect any reason to make a change.  They represent the status quo and use the second amendment as a way to justify that guns are necessary.  In my view the reason why they refuse to make any changes is basically for profit.  Money can be a blessing and if our current system invests more into norma...

Most people find it fascinating to watch the modern stereotype of minorities using violence as a way to prove their point of view.  You have whiny men backstabbing each other, beautiful women ripping each other hairs out over small disagreements and a lack of faithful relationships.  In case you haven’t noticed, the fameless will act a fool to become famous and the already famous will act a fool for bigger checks.  The media in my view does not have a delicate balance of educational and entertainment shows like it use to.  People who are truly experiencing infidelity and living paycheck to paycheck need more exposure of positive messages from the media.  However, almost every channel shows a lack of substance to these Reality Savages who in a heartbeat will trade in their integrity for money.  It is unfortunate because these Reality clowns are not aware that their action affects the general public, especially those within the inner city.  It’s...

I once knew a co-worker who experienced employee crisis working for Comcast; one of the leading cable industries in the United States.  He was my mentor who had a great reputation who won countless awards for his hard work.  Unfortunately, he was laid off unexpectedly.  Some would say it was politically motivated because within the corporate world some will sabotage your good work ethic just to move ahead.  For his reputation I will name him Bob for this working assignment, this unlikely turn of events shocked fellow co-workers.  I used to explain to Bob that people within his circle were jealous of him, they envied his success.  Little did Bob know he never prepared himself for the worst outcome.  We were both in the sales department and it was critical to sell triple play bundles as much as possible.  Bob was accused of personal conflict of interest within the organization which claimed someone who he knew was personally providing him wit...

Relationships are hard and ALL couples have disagreements.  Some women feel there is no such thing as a perfect relationship.  Other women are scared so much from their past relationship that they tend to let it drag into their new one which can cause a lot of problems.  When this occurs, most women are so bruised and batter from the last relationship that they end up sabotaging something good with a faithful, positive man.  For women who had experience heartache and pain and finally obtain a loyal man but don’t know how to treat him is what I call the “Cinderella Syndrome.”  By definition, a man who a woman vision as their knight in shining armor coming to rescue them.   Once the man wins the woman’s heart she then begins to not trust him.  The four main rules in a relationship are having trust in God, don't lie, don't cheat and don't make promises you can't keep.  This generation tends to forget these unwritten rules because unfortunately...

What’s the definition of family?  According to Merriam-Webster dictionary it means a group of persons of common ancestry.  This affiliation is true however, just because you’re blood doesn’t mean you’re family.  My definition of family is a tight knit bond among groups of people who are very supportive, love you unconditionally, not judgmental and influence positive aspects in your life.  When you have the opposite side effect in a family, this causes an individual to become a Lone Wolf .  A Lone Wolf is one who does not allow anyone in their family to control their life.  One who has survival instincts in the world and is very responsible.  One who has pride and continues to improve their life on a daily basis.   When family members are negative this can cause a Lone Wolf to become stronger and not rely on their hypocritical blood affiliation .  I truly believe that Lone Wolves have the most amazing stories of overcoming challengi...