What’s the definition of family? According to Merriam-Webster dictionary it
means a group of persons of common ancestry.
This affiliation is true however, just because you’re blood doesn’t mean
you’re family. My definition of family
is a tight knit bond among groups of people who are very supportive, love you
unconditionally, not judgmental and influence positive aspects in your life. When you have the opposite side effect in a
family, this causes an individual to become a Lone Wolf. A Lone Wolf is one who does not allow anyone
in their family to control their life. One
who has survival instincts in the world and is very responsible. One who has pride and continues to improve their life on a daily basis. When family members are negative this can
cause a Lone Wolf to become stronger and not rely on their hypocritical blood affiliation. I truly believe that Lone Wolves have the
most amazing stories of overcoming challenging obstacles in their lives
pertaining to negative treatment from their family members. For example Charlize Theron who played in “Mad
Max: Fury Road” overcame a difficult childhood which made her stronger to
become a famous actress. Charlize’s father was an alcoholic who abused and cheated
on her mother for years. Her mother
shot her father when he tried to attack her.
This left a permanent mark on her life based on the negative effect
within her family. However, on the
universal scale a Lone Wolf like Charlize who experienced negative reaction
from her family in the past transformed her current life into a positive experience. In theory, Negative energy is devoured by Positive
energy which creates an external confidence shield surrounding a Lone Wolf in any environment. This aura attracts new affiliations with
people who have common loving characteristics that a family should have. When you have family members with unrelated
common characteristics based on negative behavior keep your distance from them
at ALL
costs. Here are some examples of
negative family member’s characteristics.
Being Judgmental
1. Family members who are quick to judge
your flaws yet they have skeletons in their own closet is a nasty trait to have. For example, they may judge your relationship
knowing that you are going through ups/downs with your significant other and
are quick to criticize you. Even if you
try to better your situation they are quick to put you down despite the fact
they have been in worse relationships. Remember, those who point their finger at you
are pointing three fingers back on themselves.
Being Hypocritical
2. These are the two-tone face family
members who smile in your face and stab you right behind your back. This trait can cause a complete breakdown in
the family structure because if a family member does not agree with your point
of view then your personal information can be used as a weapon against you. Long-term repercussions can occur and lives
can be ruin. Be mindful of these family
members and love them at a distance. Don’t
feed into their drama. Continue to be
the best person you can be.
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