Dear Brothers, Dear Sisters Listen Up

Relationships are hard and ALL couples have disagreements.  Some women feel there is no such thing as a perfect relationship.  Other women are scared so much from their past relationship that they tend to let it drag into their new one which can cause a lot of problems.  When this occurs, most women are so bruised and batter from the last relationship that they end up sabotaging something good with a faithful, positive man.  For women who had experience heartache and pain and finally obtain a loyal man but don’t know how to treat him is what I call the “Cinderella Syndrome.”  By definition, a man who a woman vision as their knight in shining armor coming to rescue them.   Once the man wins the woman’s heart she then begins to not trust him.  The four main rules in a relationship are having trust in God, don't lie, don't cheat and don't make promises you can't keep.  This generation tends to forget these unwritten rules because unfortunately...

What’s the definition of family?  According to Merriam-Webster dictionary it means a group of persons of common ancestry.  This affiliation is true however, just because you’re blood doesn’t mean you’re family.  My definition of family is a tight knit bond among groups of people who are very supportive, love you unconditionally, not judgmental and influence positive aspects in your life.  When you have the opposite side effect in a family, this causes an individual to become a Lone Wolf .  A Lone Wolf is one who does not allow anyone in their family to control their life.  One who has survival instincts in the world and is very responsible.  One who has pride and continues to improve their life on a daily basis.   When family members are negative this can cause a Lone Wolf to become stronger and not rely on their hypocritical blood affiliation .  I truly believe that Lone Wolves have the most amazing stories of overcoming challengi...

Good men are overshadowed by their dog counterpart in numerous ways.  Most men with a “coach mentality” would rather have a full bench of women at their disposal.  A true man would want a “MVP”, one who is able to play all positions without any substitutions.  Part of the reason why men rotate women like replaceable parts is due to imitation codes transmitted to their brain from the media which influence weak minded men.  Selling and marketing is a human element which affects every waking moment of your life.  Some weak minded men observe how celebrities use persuasive skills and also how they brand themselves to attract multiple women for their pleasure.  In this generation some women accept the positon as a side chick because they feel there is no string attach.  Let me be clear; as long as you are dating with good intentions there is nothing wrong with talking to numerous women.  However, some men use false advertising as a perfect guy...

There are a lot of components to maintain a strong relationship with your significant other.   Unlike previous generations this millennium era has a lot of negative influence partially due to advance technology and media which can influence behavior in relationships.  There are myriad ways we could illustrate the complexity of today’s relationships.   You must have a system of understanding as well as strong communication between both individuals.  When a lack of communication is broken sometimes your partner may say irrational meanings especially in all areas in your relationship where you have been loyal, supportive, understanding and caring.   This usually occurs during a low point in your relationship and if you BOTH don’t have complicated thinking to solve complicated problems then your relationship investment will drain itself down the toilet.  What do I mean by Relationship Investments?  I am referring to spending quality ti...

American ideals consist that everyone is entitle to receive equal opportunity to be successful in this country.  An American ideal boils down to ideology .  For example if you are a Democrat you may favor Labor Unions, affirmative action and Plan Parenthood compare to Republican ideology in which you may favor less government and a strong military.  No matter what your ideology is some people unfortunately are held back for a number of reasons to be successful.  It can be your sex gender, color of your skin or your religious beliefs just to name a few.  Our philosophy should be a combination between the two ideologies because there are so many different backgrounds, cultural and ethnicities which makes our country so great.  One example would be to maintain a strong military presence in the world while we continue to invest more into our educational programs without discrimination.  A better education equals a great career, while a strong militar...

Tim Wise, an anti-racism activist and writer mentioned that every incident has a predicate.  Income Inequality is tied more towards minorities because the ugly truth is the dominant Whites in today’s society always have privilege benefits.  Powerful conservative forces are the protectors of the status quo and insist that wealth stays in the hands of the private sector and wealthy class.  They oppose government policies and programs that hint at the redistribution of public and private resources to benefit Blacks.  As Tim Wise argued, we are living in a Snap Chat nation because mostly Whites want to forget about slavery and other harmful things done towards minorities.  Tim wise illustrated the world we live in compare to the Sci-Fi movie  The Matrix  based on Neo’s decision to take the blue pill which represented a simulated comfortable world or the red pill which represented the real world of physical and emotional abuse based on their uniqueness....

Why do men go CRAZY over beautiful women?  I believe a large portion is the cosmetology make-up distribute by the media.  It programs particular codes within our brain which inform us who and what we are attracted to.  We are VERY visual creatures and sometimes we have a habit of not peeling off the layers of a person.  For example, most men will literally use every pick-up line and strategic move to engage a woman who looks like Beyoncé because the mass media applies that she is the most beautiful woman in the world.  Fact, you can come across a woman who is physically attractive on the outside and your inner circle is influencing your decision to wife her.  Weak minded men are very superficial because they view women as special objects not as people.  Most men who have this mindset bypass the natural evaluation to mentally view women who are truly compatible with them.  This is where the term thirst comes into play because shallow men pu...