Dear Brothers, Dear Sisters Listen Up

Watch out for the 'Leech brothers'. These particular brothers LOVE to live off sisters. They have no ambition and will purposely try to get you pregnant if you allow them to. They mostly like to target sisters who have their act together or those who sadly believe they can mold him into a responsible man. Be mindful of a brother who always pitches a sob story about his life, refuse to improve himself, has no car, no place of his own, no job, etc.

We hear this all the time that men are supposed to be the hunters and do whatever it takes to win a woman’s heart.  That may be true to a certain extent but I would advise my fellow brothers to not take this at full-face value.  Most men have been taught this method growing up including myself.  Truthfully with this way of thinking, there is no balance in place between both parties and if a relationship was to blossom the structure or foundation will be lopsided.  Let me give you an example…. I knew this fellow brother who’s been single for a very long time.  He has a great career yet does not have a companion by his side.  I noticed, whenever he sees a beautiful woman he gets excited (like a little boy in the candy store) which sends out desperation energy in which women can sense.  A few reasons why he’s been lonely for a long time is related to his approach structure and preconceived notion of desperately chasing a woman until she changes h...

Is it okay to ask a man to pay for your basic necessities if you’re not in a committed relationship?  I would say from a man’s point of view if there are NO ‘Rules of Engagement’ established and you decided to skip the friend zone/intimacy stage then that man is NOT obligated to pay your bills.  This is a VERY common trait that a lot of women fall for and believe that their ‘sexual temple’ has MORE value than a man’s ‘sexual jewels’ and that’s definitely not the case.  No woman’s ‘sexual temple’ alone can control a man or force him to pay her bills in exchange for amazing sex and I’ll tell you why.  Men are visual and sexual in nature and most ‘Financial wolves’ understand the concept that you have the same thing between your legs that billions of other women have too!  They will use their verbal skills and financial power to hook you in just to smash your chocolate chip cookies and will give you the illusion of being a good provider, a great man or one...

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In about two months Mel and I will be publishing our book Dear Brothers Dear Sisters Listen Up! We want to take a few minutes to give you an overview of the book. Dear Brother, Dear Sisters Listen Up! is a knowledge guide that contains advice on how to avoid the traps and pitfalls that accompany dating and relationships for both men and women. This book covers the groundwork that will help individuals grow themselves into positive relationship ready form so that they are prepared for true love when it arrives. Each chapter exposes the reader to fundamentally dysfunctional behaviors that work against healthy relationships by explaining philosophy’s behind relationship dynamics. Short fictional examples of failed relationships are provided to give readers the opportunity to assess problems by taking an observer perspective. Each chapter also contains experienced solutions that will help to change the way individuals view relationships and love. The knowledge within D...

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I knew this fellow brother who’s been single for a very long time.  Has a great career yet does not have a companion by his side.  I noticed, whenever he sees a beautiful woman he gets excited (like a little boy in the candy store).  Listen he said to himself that he is tired of being solo.  A few reasons why he’s been solo for a very long time is related to his approach structure and preconceived notion of chasing a woman until she changes her mind and settles down with him.  It was this one woman who was not interested he found very attractive that  he  felt she was the one for him.  At first he would buy her gifts, give her money but overtime it went from stage green (chasing) to stage yellow (desperation) to stage red (stalking).  I mean, my brother was showing up at her job announced.  Driving passed her gym to see if she’s available.  That’s what I call the  Pursuit Indicat...