Dear Brothers Dear Sisters Listen UP! Book summary by: Mel

In about two months Mel and I will be publishing our book Dear Brothers Dear Sisters Listen Up! We want to take a few minutes to give you an overview of the book.

Dear Brother, Dear Sisters Listen Up! is a knowledge guide that contains advice on how to avoid the traps and pitfalls that accompany dating and relationships for both men and women.

This book covers the groundwork that will help individuals grow themselves into positive relationship ready form so that they are prepared for true love when it arrives. Each chapter exposes the reader to fundamentally dysfunctional behaviors that work against healthy relationships by explaining philosophy’s behind relationship dynamics.

Short fictional examples of failed relationships are provided to give readers the opportunity to assess problems by taking an observer perspective. Each chapter also contains experienced solutions that will help to change the way individuals view relationships and love.

The knowledge within Dear Brother, Dear Sisters Listen Up! will make it fun to date again, it will make it easy for you to spot warning signals, it will help you decide when to stay and when to leave, and it will assist you in finding that one man or woman that you have been searching for.

Each chapter is written for either men or women with the goal or intent of giving the reader information that will help them make changes that will support healthy relationships. Chapters may contain a Wisdom letter that starts with the Dear Brothers or Dear Sisters. The Wisdom letters can be looked at as the basis for each chapter. Here is an example of one of the Wisdom letters:

Dear Thirsty Brothers, STOP settling for bottom of the barrel type of women. Instead, step YOUR mental game up and watch endless opportunities in your life begin to open. High quality, classy women will appear in your life. But FIRST you must change your mind set.

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