Don't Ruin a Good Thing by Mel

Good men and women are out there but it all starts with YOU, your way of thinking and how you carry yourself. If you don’t change your mindset you will continue to be attracted to losers, users, and abusers. Ask yourself, do your actions show how you expect to be treated? Are you willing to make your needs known? When you don't self-reflect it will create a false belief that good men and women don’t exist and you will continue to miss out on people who possess integrity, treat you with respect and show you love on a consistent basis.

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