Stop Selling Thirsty Tactics and Become a Professional Persuader By Mel

Selling is everywhere around you, and most brothers who are not pros do it every day, in one form or another. The reason why Thirsty Brothers get rejected or taking advantage of so often is because they are selling themselves as desperate boys. If this is how you market yourself you will NEVER attract a real intellectual woman in your life. You have to change your mindset from stalking women with thirsty tendencies and evolve into a confident Professional Persuader. A Professional Persuader is a confident Man who is well grounded, intelligent and takes risks. Verbal and non-verbal communications along with confidence are key elements in engaging real women. As I mentioned in my previous blogs, men should always be the ones to make the first move ONLY if she shows that she is interested. Men must make an informed decision about which women to approach. A Professional Persuader can deduct a green flag to see if a woman is interested in them. Thirsty brothers do the opposite; red flags are verbally or non-verbally display and they still give chase. That is what I call a bad sales lead, because they wasted their time on someone who is not interested. I tell Thirsty Brothers to screen out their prospects first because you cannot take it to the next level if that particular woman is in a relationship or flat out not align with what you are looking for. Even if she is, a good lead meaning if she is single and compatible she still may not be interested. When a Professional Persuader gets rejected his main weapon to inadequate feelings created by failure is enthusiasm. YES, he keeps it moving until he comes across another Real woman who may be interested compare to a Thirsty Brother who continues to waste his time on a non-interested woman. Don’t let this be you, layout the playing field and do your research beforehand. Change your mindset and you will become attractive in a real woman’s eye.

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Don't Thirst Your Way Into The Rejected Pile By Mel

Men, you have the power to change. Your standard of living and philosophical mindset based on thirsty behavior is not setting a good example. Classy women will throw you automatically into the rejected pile if they sense this way of thinking. What concerns me the most is how brothers market themselves onto the dating scene and the assumption they make when they speak to a beautiful woman. Money flashers believe it is a walk in the park that they can get any woman they want. Most thirsty men try to impress women with their financial assets. They believe this technique will force a woman to throw herself at their feet. When fantasy becomes reality or they get rejected they proclaim that a woman is stuck up which is far from the truth. To be honest, no sophisticated female wants to be whistle, bark at or grab in an awkward way from a stranger and I do not blame them. I have a daughter, and I expect men to treat my little princess as a human being when she gets older, not an o

Date Smarter, not Harder By: Mel

Way too many guys pay attention to women based on THEIR attraction level. They will waste their time and hard earned money on a woman who is not attracted to them at all. It's always a better experience to go out with someone who's just as excited and enthusiastic to be with you compared to someone who you have to warm up. You should want to spend time with women who appreciate and value your time. Always pay attention to her action, not what she says. Date smarter, not harder.

BE who you ARE, not who the World wants you to BE By Mel

Life is full surprises. When you’re out there in the field you get a sense that all eyes are on you. That oil to your engine is confidence . Every ounce in your body engages you to stay well groomed, sell your image, build your vocabulary and practice on your art or goals in life. That’s a very attractive trait to have and I will tell you why. The love you put inside yourself shines externally which creates this invisible aura. It creates offensive projections defined as the way you carry yourself or how you interact with people combine with defensive measures such as keeping your guard up and not allowing people to take advantage of you. We all have our moments when we navigate in unfamiliar territory. For example, giving your time and effort to someone who shortchanged you or getting laid off from a promising career just because you challenged the status quo. Sometimes you feel betrayed but let me share something with you. To succeed in life you must fa

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