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Stop Selling Thirsty Tactics and Become a Professional Persuader By Mel


Selling is everywhere around you, and most brothers who are not pros do it every day, in one form or another.   The reason why Thirsty Brothers get rejected or taking advantage of so often is because they are selling themselves as desperate boys.  If this is how you market yourself you will NEVER attract a real intellectual woman in your life.  You have to change your mindset from stalking women with thirsty tendencies and evolve into a confident Professional Persuader.  A Professional Persuader is a confident Man who is well grounded, intelligent and takes risks.  Verbal and non-verbal communications along with confidence are key elements in engaging real women.  As I mentioned in my previous blogs, men should always be the ones to make the first move ONLY if she shows that she is interested.  Men must make an informed decision about which women to approach.  A Professional Persuader can deduct a green flag to see if a woman is interested in them.  Thirsty brothers do the opposite; red flags are verbally or non-verbally display and they still give chase.  That is what I call a bad sales lead, because they wasted their time on someone who is not interested.  I tell Thirsty Brothers to screen out their prospects first because you cannot take it to the next level if that particular woman is in a relationship or flat out not align with what you are looking for.  Even if she is, a good lead meaning if she is single and compatible she still may not be interested.  When a Professional Persuader gets rejected his main weapon to inadequate feelings created by failure is enthusiasm.  YES, he keeps it moving until he comes across another Real woman who may be interested compare to a Thirsty Brother who continues to waste his time on a non-interested woman.  Don’t let this be you, layout the playing field and do your research beforehand.  Change your mindset and you will become attractive in a real woman’s eye.     

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