My daughter’s birthday
is approaching and the first thing she said to me, “Daddy, I either want a pair
of LeBron’s
or Jordan’s.” Payless shoes do not exist anymore because
what she is told by her classmates and the media is that her popularity rating
meter in her school drops down if she
is not a part of the latest fashion trend.
My daughter Ayanna is very talented and her goal is to be a musician. I believe a better investment would be a
keyboard or some sort of musical instrument to enhance her musical skills. I explained that her uniqueness is what makes her very special
and to always focus on what she is doing; to be the best version of herself. I also explained to her that her content of character,
talent and education will get her very far in life, not a pair of over the top
expensive sneakers. You will be amazed
that the ones who do not floss their name brand external wear are the very
ones who have plenty of money. Not only
children but we as adults fall into this trap I call “Materialistic Mind Thinking.” Instead of bargain shopping or saving our money
for more important future endeavors we are becoming consumers based on advertising. Little do people know while some of us
glorify our popularity
rating meter by spending hundreds of dollars on a pair of sneakers a
worker at the Sukabumi plant which is located in Indonesia is suffering physical abuse
and verbal abuse. An article by Daily Mail reported, “The
10,000 mostly female workers at the Taiwanese-operated Pou Chen plant make
around 50 cents
an hour. Indonesia is Nike’s
third-largest manufacturing base, after China and Vietnam, with 140,000 workers
at 14 contract factories.” You are
viewing slavery in a different form and it is pretty sad we support countries
with little to no labor laws and below poverty wages. The seed for thirst attraction is planted
within our subconscious which comes from advertisers that pinpoints what you want
into what you need. I know some parents will invest their hard
earn money into a pair of sneakers for $250 instead of investing into their child’s
future like a college
fund. Or a fresh new pair of
Jordan’s they feel will put their child into a position of popularity in school
but underneath it ALL it would put their entire family in debt. But you have the ability to change your
mindset to invest in more important aspects in your life. Just follow Nike’s slogan and “Just do it.”
Life is full surprises. When you’re out there in the field you get a sense that all eyes are on you. That oil to your engine is confidence . Every ounce in your body engages you to stay well groomed, sell your image, build your vocabulary and practice on your art or goals in life. That’s a very attractive trait to have and I will tell you why. The love you put inside yourself shines externally which creates this invisible aura. It creates offensive projections defined as the way you carry yourself or how you interact with people combine with defensive measures such as keeping your guard up and not allowing people to take advantage of you. We all have our moments when we navigate in unfamiliar territory. For example, giving your time and effort to someone who shortchanged you or getting laid off from a promising career just because you challenged the status quo. Sometimes you feel betrayed but let me share som...
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