Why Desperate Nice Guys Finish Last? By Mel

Women always say they want a nice guy. One who is stable, faithful, have a great sense of humor. One who will spend an abundance amount of money on them. However, after evaluating some of these relationships most women show they would rather be with a thug or a bad guy and here’s the reason why. Clingy men are very insecure with a voluminous persona that screams “thirsty” by their actions. Women are more observant then men so when they notice this type of behavior it translates to them that they are a pushover even though they treat them like a queen. Women respect men who are confident, ambitious and most importantly one who does not tolerate drama even if she is extremely beautiful. Most men subconscious are image driven which unfortunately allows certain women to get anything they want based on their gorgeous looks. Desperate nice guys fall into these traps because they believe the more they spoil as well as accept drama from these women that they will gravitate towards them. Instead the opposite occurs which pushes a woman away to a man who shows he has a backbone and one who lives his life the way he wants to live it without anyone’s approval or validation. A man of this caliber garners respect; he understands that a pretty face does not mean a pretty heart. A secure confident man knows that a positive quality woman will put in just enough effort into their relationship and he will not expect anything less from her. If not, then he can easily replace her with another quality woman knowing that men such as him nearly exist in this day in age. If this is you chasing after a queen then you must change your mindset from being a servant.

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Don't Thirst Your Way Into The Rejected Pile By Mel

Men, you have the power to change. Your standard of living and philosophical mindset based on thirsty behavior is not setting a good example. Classy women will throw you automatically into the rejected pile if they sense this way of thinking. What concerns me the most is how brothers market themselves onto the dating scene and the assumption they make when they speak to a beautiful woman. Money flashers believe it is a walk in the park that they can get any woman they want. Most thirsty men try to impress women with their financial assets. They believe this technique will force a woman to throw herself at their feet. When fantasy becomes reality or they get rejected they proclaim that a woman is stuck up which is far from the truth. To be honest, no sophisticated female wants to be whistle, bark at or grab in an awkward way from a stranger and I do not blame them. I have a daughter, and I expect men to treat my little princess as a human being when she gets older, not an o

Date Smarter, not Harder By: Mel

Way too many guys pay attention to women based on THEIR attraction level. They will waste their time and hard earned money on a woman who is not attracted to them at all. It's always a better experience to go out with someone who's just as excited and enthusiastic to be with you compared to someone who you have to warm up. You should want to spend time with women who appreciate and value your time. Always pay attention to her action, not what she says. Date smarter, not harder.

BE who you ARE, not who the World wants you to BE By Mel

Life is full surprises. When you’re out there in the field you get a sense that all eyes are on you. That oil to your engine is confidence . Every ounce in your body engages you to stay well groomed, sell your image, build your vocabulary and practice on your art or goals in life. That’s a very attractive trait to have and I will tell you why. The love you put inside yourself shines externally which creates this invisible aura. It creates offensive projections defined as the way you carry yourself or how you interact with people combine with defensive measures such as keeping your guard up and not allowing people to take advantage of you. We all have our moments when we navigate in unfamiliar territory. For example, giving your time and effort to someone who shortchanged you or getting laid off from a promising career just because you challenged the status quo. Sometimes you feel betrayed but let me share something with you. To succeed in life you must fa

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