Women always say they want a nice guy.
One who is stable, faithful, have a great sense of humor. One who will spend an abundance amount of
money on them. However, after evaluating
some of these relationships most women show they would rather be with a thug or a bad guy
and here’s the reason why. Clingy men
are very insecure with a voluminous persona that screams “thirsty” by their
actions. Women are more observant then
men so when they notice this type of behavior it translates to them that they
are a pushover even though they treat them like a queen. Women respect men who are confident, ambitious
and most importantly one who does not tolerate drama even if she is extremely beautiful. Most men subconscious are image driven which unfortunately
allows certain women to get anything they want based on their gorgeous looks. Desperate nice guys fall into these traps
because they believe the more they spoil as well as accept drama from these
women that they will gravitate towards them.
Instead the opposite occurs which pushes a woman away to a man who shows
he has a backbone and one who lives his life the way he wants to live it
without anyone’s approval or validation.
A man of this caliber garners respect; he understands that a pretty face
does not mean a pretty heart. A secure
confident man knows that a positive quality woman will put in just enough
effort into their relationship and he will not expect anything less from her. If not, then he can easily replace her with
another quality woman knowing that men such as him nearly exist in this day in
age. If this is you chasing after a
queen then you must change your mindset from being a servant.
Life is full surprises. When you’re out there in the field you get a sense that all eyes are on you. That oil to your engine is confidence . Every ounce in your body engages you to stay well groomed, sell your image, build your vocabulary and practice on your art or goals in life. That’s a very attractive trait to have and I will tell you why. The love you put inside yourself shines externally which creates this invisible aura. It creates offensive projections defined as the way you carry yourself or how you interact with people combine with defensive measures such as keeping your guard up and not allowing people to take advantage of you. We all have our moments when we navigate in unfamiliar territory. For example, giving your time and effort to someone who shortchanged you or getting laid off from a promising career just because you challenged the status quo. Sometimes you feel betrayed but let me share som...
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