Dear Brothers, Dear Sisters Listen Up

If you only take Backshot selfies then it simply means you are seeking attention. This is a classic example of approval seeking behavior. In other words, this feeds the posters ego or need for attention. Classy women, on the other hand, don't crave for attention and limit their excessive sexuality to a man who has earn their heart, mind, and soul. Learn to leave the rest to a man's imagination or else you'll continue to attract the majority of men who ONLY want to play bedroom gymnastics with you.  Beauty should come from your inner power.  

Good men and women are out there but it all starts with YOU, your way of thinking and how you carry yourself. If you don’t change your mindset you will continue to be attracted to losers, users, and abusers.  Ask yourself, do your actions show how you expect to be treated?  Are you willing to make your needs known?  When you don't self-reflect it  will create a false belief that good men and women don’t exist and you will continue to miss out on people who possess integrity, treat you with respect and show you love on a consistent basis.     

When women sense weakness in their men, especially when they act needy, fearful and insecure, they typically will back away. A weak man has weak principles, weak morals, and no backbone. A woman simply cannot trust a man like this. Because weak men have difficulty getting their own needs met they won’t be able to meet the needs of those dependent on them. So if you're one of those men who ALWAYS agree or change your opinion to please her then non-verbally you're displaying weakness. Change your mindset.