Don't Ruin a Good Thing by Mel

Good men and women are out there but it all starts with YOU, your way of thinking and how you carry yourself. If you don’t change your mindset you will continue to be attracted to losers, users, and abusers. Ask yourself, do your actions show how you expect to be treated? Are you willing to make your needs known? When you don't self-reflect it will create a false belief that good men and women don’t exist and you will continue to miss out on people who possess integrity, treat you with respect and show you love on a consistent basis.

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Don't Thirst Your Way Into The Rejected Pile By Mel

Men, you have the power to change. Your standard of living and philosophical mindset based on thirsty behavior is not setting a good example. Classy women will throw you automatically into the rejected pile if they sense this way of thinking. What concerns me the most is how brothers market themselves onto the dating scene and the assumption they make when they speak to a beautiful woman. Money flashers believe it is a walk in the park that they can get any woman they want. Most thirsty men try to impress women with their financial assets. They believe this technique will force a woman to throw herself at their feet. When fantasy becomes reality or they get rejected they proclaim that a woman is stuck up which is far from the truth. To be honest, no sophisticated female wants to be whistle, bark at or grab in an awkward way from a stranger and I do not blame them. I have a daughter, and I expect men to treat my little princess as a hu...

BE who you ARE, not who the World wants you to BE By Mel

Life is full surprises. When you’re out there in the field you get a sense that all eyes are on you. That oil to your engine is confidence . Every ounce in your body engages you to stay well groomed, sell your image, build your vocabulary and practice on your art or goals in life. That’s a very attractive trait to have and I will tell you why. The love you put inside yourself shines externally which creates this invisible aura. It creates offensive projections defined as the way you carry yourself or how you interact with people combine with defensive measures such as keeping your guard up and not allowing people to take advantage of you. We all have our moments when we navigate in unfamiliar territory. For example, giving your time and effort to someone who shortchanged you or getting laid off from a promising career just because you challenged the status quo. Sometimes you feel betrayed but let me share som...

False Advertising By Mel

Sometimes when we come across someone who we are extremely attracted to we subconsciously do not reveal who we truly are. This is what I call " False Advertising " which means pretending to be someone else to appeal to a person who you are attracted to. This all goes back to low-confidence because most men who discover to their own delight that if a beautiful female shows a little bit of friendliness he assumes that she is highly attracted to him. With no rapport building to see if they have some sort of emotional connection he then abandons his self-identity just to please her. This is where he gives his power away based alone on visual aspect without this woman even putting minimal effort in to show she is interested in him. Little Trey's logical mind instantly goes into character mode. For example, he begins to text her non-stop with little to no feedback or purchasing expensive flowers every day delivered to her job. Sadly, this t...

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