My daughter’s birthday
is approaching and the first thing she said to me, “Daddy, I either want a pair
of LeBron’s
or Jordan’s.” Payless shoes do not exist anymore because
what she is told by her classmates and the media is that her popularity rating
meter in her school drops down if she
is not a part of the latest fashion trend.
My daughter Ayanna is very talented and her goal is to be a musician. I believe a better investment would be a
keyboard or some sort of musical instrument to enhance her musical skills. I explained that her uniqueness is what makes her very special
and to always focus on what she is doing; to be the best version of herself. I also explained to her that her content of character,
talent and education will get her very far in life, not a pair of over the top
expensive sneakers. You will be amazed
that the ones who do not floss their name brand external wear are the very
ones who have plenty of money. Not only
children but we as adults fall into this trap I call “Materialistic Mind Thinking.” Instead of bargain shopping or saving our money
for more important future endeavors we are becoming consumers based on advertising. Little do people know while some of us
glorify our popularity
rating meter by spending hundreds of dollars on a pair of sneakers a
worker at the Sukabumi plant which is located in Indonesia is suffering physical abuse
and verbal abuse. An article by Daily Mail reported, “The
10,000 mostly female workers at the Taiwanese-operated Pou Chen plant make
around 50 cents
an hour. Indonesia is Nike’s
third-largest manufacturing base, after China and Vietnam, with 140,000 workers
at 14 contract factories.” You are
viewing slavery in a different form and it is pretty sad we support countries
with little to no labor laws and below poverty wages. The seed for thirst attraction is planted
within our subconscious which comes from advertisers that pinpoints what you want
into what you need. I know some parents will invest their hard
earn money into a pair of sneakers for $250 instead of investing into their child’s
future like a college
fund. Or a fresh new pair of
Jordan’s they feel will put their child into a position of popularity in school
but underneath it ALL it would put their entire family in debt. But you have the ability to change your
mindset to invest in more important aspects in your life. Just follow Nike’s slogan and “Just do it.”
Father! - To God himself we cannot give a holier name by William Wordsworth is such a powerful quote. I would like to say single and non-residential fathers are portrayed in the media as irresponsible and non-supportive to their kids. Well, I’m here to share with you through some research that it is not entirely true. Even though single and non-residential fathers as a whole are an understudied group there’s still some truth that single and supportive non-residential fathers do exist. Some fathers are working 2 part-time jobs and are unable to get government assistance. The media rarely report positive fathers working 7 days a week with no days off, struggling paycheck to paycheck. For myself as a non-residential father, I still support my daughter in every aspect, however the role of a father is never recognize or acknowledge for my continuous involvement. · A Non-resident...
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