When communication is cut off the
chit chatter in some relationships can turn into a mix batter. Physical abuse towards men is not a myth;
although a man is physically
stronger than a woman there are those who use extreme violence as a way to
control their relationship. Normally the
way society is structure is that men are raise to have a shell shock exterior,
less conversational in exchange for more action and train not to show emotions
or else they are label as soft. Domestic
violence towards men lack resources, men in these situations are embarrass to
reach out, the rules of disengagement no longer exist. Emotional control or having mutual respect
for each other is thrown out the window.
Furthermore, certain women who find it challenging to engage with their
partner in a calm manner instead replace it with rage which has a devastating effect on both parties especially if
kids are involved. According to The National
Coalition of Domestic Violence, “men and boys are less likely to report the
violence and seek services due to several challenges such as the stigma of
being a male victim.” The centerpiece to
avoid this behavior I would say is to leave that particular woman, seek
counseling and most importantly obtain a restraining order. Little Trey has to be confident enough to
acknowledge the fact that she needs serious help, pronto! Too many men put up with this nonsense because
they are shallow minded not knowing their worth. Let me explain, a woman who does not value
her man will continue to mistreat him, verbally and worse of all physically
abuse him. Men, if you are in this
situation I have two words for you, LET GO.
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