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Date Smarter, not Harder By: Mel

Way too many guys pay attention to women based on THEIR attraction level. They will waste their time and hard earned money on a woman who is not attracted to them at all. It's always a better experience to go out with someone who's just as excited and enthusiastic to be with you compared to someone who you have to warm up. You should want to spend time with women who appreciate and value your time. Always pay attention to her action, not what she says. Date smarter, not harder.

Ego Boosting by Mel

If you only take Backshot selfies then it simply means you are seeking attention. This is a classic example of approval seeking behavior. In other words, this feeds the posters ego or need for attention. Classy women, on the other hand, don't crave for attention and limit their excessive sexuality to a man who has earn their heart, mind, and soul. Learn to leave the rest to a man's imagination or else you'll continue to attract the majority of men who ONLY want to play bedroom gymnastics with you.  Beauty should come from your inner power.  

Don't Ruin a Good Thing by Mel

Good men and women are out there but it all starts with YOU, your way of thinking and how you carry yourself. If you don’t change your mindset you will continue to be attracted to losers, users, and abusers.  Ask yourself, do your actions show how you expect to be treated?  Are you willing to make your needs known?  When you don't self-reflect it  will create a false belief that good men and women don’t exist and you will continue to miss out on people who possess integrity, treat you with respect and show you love on a consistent basis.     

Weak Brothers by Mel

When women sense weakness in their men, especially when they act needy, fearful and insecure, they typically will back away. A weak man has weak principles, weak morals, and no backbone. A woman simply cannot trust a man like this. Because weak men have difficulty getting their own needs met they won’t be able to meet the needs of those dependent on them. So if you're one of those men who ALWAYS agree or change your opinion to please her then non-verbally you're displaying weakness. Change your mindset.

Leech Brothers by Mel

Watch out for the 'Leech brothers'. These particular brothers LOVE to live off sisters. They have no ambition and will purposely try to get you pregnant if you allow them to. They mostly like to target sisters who have their act together or those who sadly believe they can mold him into a responsible man. Be mindful of a brother who always pitches a sob story about his life, refuse to improve himself, has no car, no place of his own, no job, etc.

Dear Brothers, Don't Chase For The Sake Of Chasing By Mel

We hear this all the time that men are supposed to be the hunters and do whatever it takes to win a woman’s heart.  That may be true to a certain extent but I would advise my fellow brothers to not take this at full-face value.  Most men have been taught this method growing up including myself.  Truthfully with this way of thinking, there is no balance in place between both parties and if a relationship was to blossom the structure or foundation will be lopsided.  Let me give you an example…. I knew this fellow brother who’s been single for a very long time.  He has a great career yet does not have a companion by his side.  I noticed, whenever he sees a beautiful woman he gets excited (like a little boy in the candy store) which sends out desperation energy in which women can sense.  A few reasons why he’s been lonely for a long time is related to his approach structure and preconceived notion of desperately chasing a woman until she changes her mind and settles down with him.

Uncommitted Pleasure Does Not Equal Committed Obligations By Mel

Is it okay to ask a man to pay for your basic necessities if you’re not in a committed relationship?  I would say from a man’s point of view if there are NO ‘Rules of Engagement’ established and you decided to skip the friend zone/intimacy stage then that man is NOT obligated to pay your bills.  This is a VERY common trait that a lot of women fall for and believe that their ‘sexual temple’ has MORE value than a man’s ‘sexual jewels’ and that’s definitely not the case.  No woman’s ‘sexual temple’ alone can control a man or force him to pay her bills in exchange for amazing sex and I’ll tell you why.  Men are visual and sexual in nature and most ‘Financial wolves’ understand the concept that you have the same thing between your legs that billions of other women have too!  They will use their verbal skills and financial power to hook you in just to smash your chocolate chip cookies and will give you the illusion of being a good provider, a great man or one who will come to your r