Dear Brothers, Dear Sisters Listen Up

This generation seems to be drawn into the Hollywood land where propaganda rules everything.  Those who have no media literacy cannot tell the difference between fiction and non-fiction which can have dire consequences in our society.  Back then, TV was used as a medium to educate the masses, now cosmetic appearance replaced real base information.  It has even selected our new president Donald Trump.  This is why you must read between the lines when you are focus on the media.  One of my favorite movies which explained this theory pretty well is titled, “The Matrix” where the character Neo’s mind is imprison within an artificial reality.  I feel the same logic applies in today’s society because people now based their actions off of emotions instead of thinking things through.  I will give you an example, last year’s election quite honestly was based off of emotion.  Today’s politicians disregard issues affecting the American people.  Wha...

Men, you have the power to change.  Your standard of living and philosophical mindset based on thirsty behavior is not setting a good example.  Classy women will throw you automatically into the rejected pile if they sense this way of thinking.  What concerns me the most is how brothers market themselves onto the dating scene and the assumption they make when they speak to a beautiful woman.  Money flashers believe it is a walk in the park that they can get any woman they want.  Most thirsty men try to impress women with their financial assets.  They believe this technique will force a woman to throw herself at their feet. When fantasy becomes reality or they get rejected they proclaim that a woman is stuck up which is far from the truth.  To be honest, no sophisticated female wants to be whistle, bark at or grab in an awkward way from a stranger and I do not blame them.  I have a daughter, and I expect men to treat my little princess as a hu...

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Even though the printing press reinforced individualism and changed the structure of thinking I believe the internet made more of a cultural impact around the globe.    M ost newsworthy content are display on Facebook, Twitter and every other social media outlet you can think of.     Organizations understand this format which is why heavy reputable corporations such as CNN, New York Times, and The Wall Street Journal include this high technological structure to their system.    Institutions sole purpose is to make financial profit so it makes sense to converge the internet with their journalistic format.    The internet is most likely available everywhere, you can gain access to it on your smart phone, tablet, computer or even your game console just to name a few.    Information is within your grasp in a matter of seconds compare to obtaining a newspaper or magazine, seriously who wants to wait until your newspaper is deliver. ...

I NEVER understand why people are so desperate to get into a relationship without focusing on themselves.   Cuffing season has become the new norm in today's dating age and no wonder why there are so many incomplete relationships.   Shortcomings are bound to happen when you put in shortcoming efforts which equals shortcoming results...it's not rocket science.  When people market themselves in a particular way by showing their romantic side or being independent it is completely opposite when they are in a relationship.  For example, they unleash their bag of unlucky charms which cursed them from their last relationship hoping that their significant other will accept them.  Nine out of 10 that rarely happens and I will explain why.  Deceitful people brush their advertising promos underneath the rug and show who they truly are with nasty characteristic traits like clinginess, non-trustworthy ways and possessiveness.  By not practicing what you ...

Selling is everywhere around you, and most brothers who are not pros do it every day, in one form or another.   The reason why Thirsty Brothers get rejected or taking advantage of so often is because they are selling themselves as desperate boys.  If this is how you market yourself you will NEVER attract a real intellectual woman in your life.  You have to change your mindset from stalking women with thirsty tendencies and evolve into a confident Professional Persuader .  A Professional Persuader is a confident Man who is well grounded, intelligent and takes risks.  Verbal and non-verbal communications along with confidence are key elements in engaging real women.  As I mentioned in my previous blogs, men should always be the ones to make the first move ONLY if she shows that she is interested.  Men must make an informed decision about which women to approach.  A Professional Persuader can deduct a green flag to see if a woman is inte...

Here is a very critical rule when you first meet a woman…be confident in ALL your well-being.  The reason why confidence is such a key factor verbally and non-verbally is because it displays self-assurance from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities.  In the modern era, Thirsty Jokers approach women from the physical aspect instead of the mental aspect.  Women are very observable and will be impress with how you carry yourself including your body language and conversation.  However, Thirsty Jokers comes in many forms whether it is the one you see when the club is over then without h esitation  proceeds to grabs a woman’s arm without properly introducing himself and labels her “Shorty”, or instant messaging a woman on social media constantly with sexual dialogue.  If this is YOU then please stop and Man-up! Real good quality women don’t need to do much to attract men.  All they have to do is look good and dress nice.  While some wo...