Dear Brothers, Dear Sisters Listen Up

  Today’s society is so dependent on high technology.   We are a fast-driven, impatient society with a ‘quick second I want it right now’ way of thinking.   Just think about, the microwave for example fits in this category from the moment you pop in your meal as you wait until it finish heating up your process mash potatoes in your kitchen to the very last second.   You think to yourself “hurry up microwave; I cannot miss the super bowl and I need my mash potatoes now!”    Back then, cooking was more of a learning experience, putting certain ingredients together to give you that awe inspiring taste.   Need to say it also makes a man more attractive to have this on his resume.   A woman wants all their feelings intertwine with sight if you have a neat place, hear if you have great music to listen to, touch where you hold hands and smell nice cologne match with a nice cook meal for the evening.   Plus cooking took patience which allows...

  I can’t take full credit for this concept. I first heard something similar from Jalen Rose, former Michigan Fab 5, NBA player and now commentator.   Most of the relationships we encounter in life, personally, romantically and professionally can be summed up as a simple math problem or equation, no pun intended. You see, most people we encounter in our daily lives, add, subtract, divide and multiply, based on the type of relationships we have with them. First there are those people that add to our lives, the Adders. They can be your children, supportive family members, caring church members, real friends. These individuals give your life meaning and purpose. Adders love you unconditionally, no matter what. They inspire you to strive to work hard and be the best person you can be. They add value to your life. Hold on to these people and cherish them. Another group of people are those that subtract from your life. They are the moochers, takers and free riders, whic...

Today’s social media is like a hybrid program between traditional on-screen drama and Enquirer magazines filled with rumors mix with secrecies.   Some people believe their likeability status on FB or IG can attract someone else outside of their relationship even if they have someone good in their life.   No relationship is perfect but when you have disagreements with your significant other it should stay within your private realm.   Instead disagreements are broadcast on Social Media for the world to see which can further down spiral your relationship nose first to the ground.    Here are some simple tips that can help you maintain a healthy relationship with your partner in this electronic age we are living in. Tip# 1.   Keep your relationship private. If your woman just manhandles you, told you to pack your stuff and get out please keep your confrontations to yourself.   Nothing is worse by sharing your negative experience with the world w...